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It Is Not Your Fire

“The same boiling water that softens the potato hardens the egg. It’s what you’re made of. Not the circumstances.” Unknown

Transformation is something we all have to deal with in life. Whether we are going through something physical or emotional, there will be change. There are so many stories of what we go through in life. Bookstores are filled with autobiographies and tales of woe. It is important to remember, though, that whatever you are going through is not who you are. There is the tendency to identify ourselves by our stories, our traumas, our failures and our successes. Yes, our experiences shape us and bring us to who we are in our now moments, but we are not just one or a few experiences.

Dear Angels, our stories help us to remember who we are. It is in going through the fires of life that we remove any of the illusion and get right to the core. In thinking of this, there is no reason then to pity others or to go into sadness or really hold any opinion about what anyone is going through. It is not for any of us to understand; only the person experiencing their journey.

Dear Ones, you are so right. Your only function is to show love in every circumstance. How can you judge something you do not fully comprehend? You have not walked in that person’s shoes, through each moment of transformation in their life. You may have experienced something similar such as a breakup, bullying, death of a loved one or a myriad of other fires. However, each of you react and respond in different ways based on all of your life experiences. Be a support for each other. You may feel empathy with another going through a tumultuous time but we encourage you to stay in your vibration. What you may be feeling as you learn of what another is going through will be processed in you based on your own experiences. It may be very different for that person who is caught up in their experience. Don’t project your feelings onto them. Simply love them from your own lane.

Dear Angels, thank you. I love you. Namaste y’all.

Today, I promise to love from my lane.

Teri Angel is a Happiness Coach, energy healer, best-selling author, spiritual teacher and mentor, and a motivational speaker. Teri is the Peace Campaign Coordinator for We, The World and the founder of a nonprofit organization, Angelspeakers Inc., which offers educational workshops and events centered around environmental awareness to include animals and nature, peace advocacy opportunities and ancient wisdom teachings. Teri’s movement “Peas For Peace” involves strengthening our awareness of the oneness of all, unifying mankind through compassion, peace, love and joy. She was named "She Who Blesses the Sacred Land" during the Peace On Earth Tour and embraces that title with loving grace.

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