DON’T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF
“The more you know who you are and what you want, the less you let things upset you.” Stephanie Perkins
On October 14, 1912, former President Theodore Roosevelt was shot at close range while campaigning for another term in office. The bullet entered his chest, but instead of rushing immediately to the hospital, he insisted on continuing to his destination to deliver his campaign speech. With a bullet lodged in his body and blood staining his shirt, he stood before the crowd and spoke for approximately 84 minutes. Only afterward did he agree to receive medical attention. He survived the assassination attempt and lived with that bullet inside him for the remaining seven years of his life.Now, that is determination!
I have thought about this story many times, especially when reflecting on my own life and the challenges I have faced. Roosevelt knew who he was, what he believed in, and what he wanted to accomplish. His commitment to his purpose was stronger than his fear in that moment. While I certainly wouldn't recommend ignoring a gunshot wound, I do admire the incredible conviction that kept him moving forward. It makes me wonder about the things that stop us in our tracks.
I have experienced some monumental challenges in my lifetime. There have been moments when the odds seemed insurmountable, when my physical body was struggling to survive, and when life presented circumstances that could easily have convinced me to give up. Yet, somehow, I found the strength to keep going. I think about my kidney transplant journey and the many times I have had to trust God when the path ahead was anything but clear. I think about the Peace On Earth Tour and the six years of traveling, trusting, and following divine guidance that eventually led me to all fifty states. There were certainly obstacles along the way, but the mission was always greater than the challenges. And then there are those other moments. You know the ones I mean. Those seemingly insignificant little irritations that somehow manage to push every button we have. A misunderstanding, an unexpected change in plans, a careless remark, or something that simply doesn't go the way we envisioned. Suddenly, the same person who can persevere through a life-threatening crisis is getting all worked up over something that, in the grand scheme of things, is barely a blip on the radar. Oh, the joys of being human!
I sometimes laugh at myself when I recognize this contradiction. How can I stand strong in the face of enormous challenges and then allow something so small to disturb my peace? Perhaps the answer lies in Stephanie Perkins' words. The more we know who we are and what we want, the less we allow outside circumstances to determine our inner state.
I know who I am. I am a child of God, a messenger of peace, and a soul having a human experience. I know what I want. I want to bring more love, compassion, kindness, and peace into this world. I want to leave every place I visit a little brighter than I found it. And yet, knowing these things doesn't mean I have mastered the art of remaining peaceful in every situation. Maybe that is the lesson. Spiritual growth isn't about becoming someone who never gets upset. It is about becoming someone who recognizes the disturbance, understands what triggered it, and chooses not to remain there.
There is a difference between having an emotional reaction and allowing that reaction to take over our day. We can acknowledge frustration without feeding it. We can experience disappointment without letting it define us. We can even be angry without losing sight of the love that resides within us.
I have often said that peace begins within. That means I have to practice what I teach, especially when life hands me those little opportunities to grow. And believe me, the universe seems to have an endless supply of those opportunities!
I don't need to become Theodore Roosevelt. I simply need to become more fully the person God created me to be. Someone who stands firmly in her purpose while remembering that not every inconvenience deserves a battle. Perhaps true courage isn't always about pushing through the biggest obstacles. Sometimes it is about having the wisdom to smile, take a deep breath, and let the little things go. After all, if I can travel thousands of miles spreading peace throughout the world, surely I can practice that same peace when something doesn't go my way. And if I forget? Well, there is always another opportunity to begin again.
Dear Angels, why is it that we can sometimes face life's greatest challenges with courage and determination, yet allow the smallest things to disturb our peace? How can we become more steadfast in who we are and what we came here to accomplish?
Dear Ones, you are discovering one of the beautiful mysteries of your human journey. You have within you a strength that rises when your soul recognizes the importance of what is before you. In those moments, your purpose becomes your guiding light, and the obstacles seem smaller than the calling of your heart. Yet, when the great challenges have passed, you sometimes forget that this same strength remains within you. It has not disappeared, Dear Ones. It is simply waiting to be remembered.
The little disturbances of life are not evidence that you have failed in your spiritual growth. They are invitations to deepen your awareness. When something upsets you, pause and ask yourself, "What am I protecting in this moment? Is it my peace, or is it my need for things to be different?" There is no judgment in the answer. There is only understanding.
You do not have to fight every battle that presents itself. You do not have to respond to every irritation or convince everyone to see the world through your eyes. You are not here to control the experiences of others. You are here to remember the divine light within yourself and allow it to shine. The more deeply you understand who you truly are, the less power you give to circumstances that cannot change that truth. You are not your frustrations. You are not your disappointments. You are not the opinions others hold about you. You are love expressing itself through a human experience. And remember, Dear Ones, being strong does not mean you must always push forward. Sometimes the greatest strength is found in resting, asking for help, or choosing another path. Let your purpose guide you, but allow love to determine how you travel.
When you find yourself becoming unsettled, return to your heart. Remember why you are here. Remember the peace you wish to create. Then choose the response that honors that intention. You do not need to carry a bullet in your chest to demonstrate courage. Sometimes courage is simply choosing compassion when irritation would be easier.
Angels Whisper: Do not measure your strength by the size of the storms you survive, but by the peace you choose when the smallest winds begin to blow. Your purpose is your compass, love is your anchor, and your true power lies in remembering who you are.
Today's Reflection: What small irritation have I allowed to steal my peace recently? If I looked at that situation through the eyes of my higher self, how might I respond differently?
Today, I choose to remember that I have already survived things I once thought impossible. I do not need to give my power away to the little things. I can stand strong in my purpose while remaining gentle with myself and others. Peace is not something I have to fight for. It is something I can choose, one moment at a time.
Teri Angel is a Joy Guide, Happiness Coach, energy healer, best-selling author, spiritual teacher, mentor, and inspirational speaker devoted to awakening peace within the human heart. As an International Peace Ambassador and founder of the nonprofit Angelspeakers Inc., Teri creates transformative workshops, sacred gatherings, and global initiatives that honor environmental stewardship, animal advocacy, peace consciousness, and the integration of ancient wisdom teachings into modern life.
Through her worldwide movement, Peas For Peace, Teri invites humanity to remember our divine interconnectedness—strengthening awareness of our oneness and inspiring unity through compassion, love, joy, and intentional action. During the Peace On Earth Tour, she was honored with the sacred name “She Who Blesses the Sacred Land,” a title she carries with humility and heartfelt grace as she continues blessing lands and waters around the world.
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