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DEFINE YOURSELF, FIND YOURSELF


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"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself." ~ Harvey Fierstein

 

Recently, I was asked to give an interview for a magazine. On the surface, that might seem simple enough. Yet I found myself grateful that their editors would take my scattered words and weave them into something cohesive. Though I write every day, whether sharing personal stories or channeling angelic wisdom, when it comes to writing about me—what I do, who I am—it becomes more of a challenge. I began to wonder why is it so difficult to define ourselves. Is it because we see ourselves through the lens of others—what they think, what they expect, what they approve of—rather than gazing inward and embracing the truth of who we are? The truth is, defining yourself is not about labels, titles, or roles. It is about remembering that you are not a reflection of someone else’s perspective. You are the light that God placed here in this exact moment to shine in only the way you can.

 

Dear Angels, why do we struggle so much to define ourselves clearly, without relying on how others see us?**

 

Dear Ones, you struggle because you forget. You forget that your essence is eternal, that your worth is not up for debate, and that your soul was designed by Divine love itself. The human mind often craves validation, comparison, and external proof, yet the truth of who you are cannot be measured by any of these. Your definition is not a sentence written by the world; it is a song sung by your soul. Each of you carries a melody unique to your journey, your lessons, your love. When you attempt to fit into definitions created by others, you silence your own song. But when you turn inward, breathe deeply, and connect to your heart, you will remember that you are already perfectly defined by Love. Do not fear being misunderstood. The right souls will always recognize your truth. Shine anyway. Sing anyway. Define yourself by the language of Spirit, and you will never again feel lost in the words of others.

 

Angels Whisper: You are not a reflection in another’s mirror; you are the Light itself. Define yourself as Love, and you will always be enough.

 

Today, I promise to just be me.

 

Teri Angel is a Happiness Coach, energy healer, best-selling author, spiritual teacher and mentor, and a motivational speaker. Teri is an International Peace Ambassador and the founder of a nonprofit organization, Angelspeakers Inc., which offers educational workshops and events centered around environmental awareness to include animals and nature, peace advocacy opportunities and ancient wisdom teachings. Teri’s movement “Peas For Peace” involves strengthening our awareness of the oneness of all, unifying mankind through compassion, peace, love and joy. She was named "She Who Blesses the Sacred Land" during the Peace On Earth Tour and embraces that title with loving grace.  www.angelspeakers.com

 

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